StopPulling.com Logo










User Login

Username

Password




Forgot Password?




 

Readiness for Change

The advantages of using StopPulling.com on an ongoing basis are obvious: to reduce or stop pulling and increase hair growth, to decrease avoidance of activities because of hair loss, to improve self-esteem and confidence, to learn more about trich, and to feel in control of your behaviors.

However, working this program is a daily commitment that will involve some time and energy each day. In order to gain control of your pulling, you will need to pay attention to your behavior, your thoughts, your feelings, and a number of other things each day. Even if you are not able to log-on every day, you will need to "catch up" the next time you log-on for the day(s) missed. Although this is a commitment of time and energy, it will be worth it if you can change your behavior.

Sometimes people realize that they are not willing to put forth the effort required to gain control of their pulling. Oftentimes this is because they were not "ready" to make the changes in the first place. Readiness is a very important part of behavioral change. For example, many people want to start an exercise program and plan to do so and may even take some steps to begin a program (like join a health club). After a few weeks, however, they forget about the new program and fall back into old habits. The same is true with trich. Many people want to stop and may even make some efforts to make changes, but these efforts peter out after a short time and they "give up" or simply "forget" about their goals.

One goal of this section is to let people know that readiness for change is a very important ingredient in the recipe for success with trich. If by reading this section you decide that you are not ready, that is OK! Lots of people want to stop pulling, but are simply not there yet. Another goal of this section is to help people get to the point of readiness. We are hoping to help people who are almost ready to get to the point of action. Ways to get to the point of action are:

  1. Begin to imagine yourself as a non-puller or as a person whose hair pulling does not significantly affect their life. Really fantasize about how this would be for you and really see yourself in a different way.
  2. Tell someone that doesn't know about your behavior that you pull. Because trich is a behavior surrounded with shame, people hide their symptoms from most people in their lives. Telling others that you pull can start to break down the shame and foster self-acceptance. Joining a group of people with trich or attending a TLC retreat or convention can catapult you into action and self-acceptance.
  3. Start to educate others about trichotillomania. Once you have told some people about your behavior you can begin to educate others about what trich is and how normal a behavior it is (i.e., no different from nail biting). You will likely be surprised at how others will not only support you, but may even tell you how they know people who do the same thing!

Learn more about...

What is trichotillomania or "trich"?
How many people have trich:
How does trich begin?
Who pulls out their hair?
The facts about pulling
Problems hair pulling can cause:
Trich in history
Why do people pull out their hair?
How do we treat trich?
Readiness for Change
References







About Trichotillomania  

People with hair loss due to pulling tend to avoid certain activities such as professional hair cuts, swimming, sports, intimate sexual encounters, and windy or well-lit places.

 

Our Commitment To Privacy 

The creators of StopPulling.com are dedicated to protecting your privacy and assuring confidentiality to subscribers.